I would love to talk about how to deal with the doubt.

Doubt is one of the five most debilitating emotions, the other four are hatred, anger, fear, and guilt. So it’s a low, high-ranking emotion.

In all realms of life and spiritual philosophies, clearing the doubt is the fundamental objective.

Doubt comes from the Latin dubitare, it means to hesitate, to hesitate.

And the word hesitate is linked to the phrase “he who doubts is lost.”

The hesitation comes from the second guess. Have you ever walked into a clothing store and heard the clerk say how wonderful those shoes you are trying on look, but ask again “are you sure?” – That is doubt and those who hesitate to listen to the doubt are lost because they give the clerk the power to define if the shoes are adequate. In this case, the one who hesitates is lost because hesitating means hesitating. Surely the fact that you even need to ask the clerk, a friend or a family member for advice is a sign that you are, deep within your being, disempowering, accelerating your doubts, instead of clearing them.

Doubt is an ingredient of the human ego. While we are trapped in the confinement of our minds, beliefs, memories, expectations, and projections of the future, we must have doubts. You cannot overcome doubt by thinking. And yet most try.

Doubt has its place. If we have doubts, we should not continue because something warns us that we are not fully informed and that our ego is in full control.

We cannot live without our ego, so there is no use overlooking our ego (beliefs, ideas, expectations and memories), if we ignore our ego, we end up regretting the decisions because the ego, in its many subtle forms, sabotage options that have not been consulted and, finally, prove that you are right.

Have you ever thrown uncertainty and doubt to the wind and plunged into something wholeheartedly (meaning sincerely without doubt, therefore egoless) and then discovered that there were an untold number of warning signs that was poorly prepared and was therefore preparing? for failure?

I have done this in several relationships, but I thought, “I will not listen to those doubts because on a spiritual level of the heart I feel unconditional love.” I lived to pay for those options. Even the most spiritual heart will only emerge in one day for about an hour and the rest of the time our ego will take over. If you had a doubt in the first instance, you will multiply that doubt over and over again to validate yourself. Eventually, (the ego) will sabotage any choice we make that excludes it.

Fools rush to enter where angels fear to tread.

Fear is an ego state and therefore angels are the mirrors of our ego. If angels fear something, our ego can’t be that stupid for fearing the same thing, can it?

This is a vital element of all great work of spiritual and personal development. Instead of admonishing and punishing our ego, we should make friends with it. The ego is not our enemy. In fact, all wealth is created through the ego, all romance is developed through the ego, all fertility, birth and child rearing, and leadership, social change, and human compassion are the benefits. of the ego. Kill the ego, kill those benefits too.

You have to be careful. If someone criticizes the ego as a bad thing, then they may be right, because the ego causes a lot of human suffering and doubt. But the ego also brings happiness, clarity, and direction. If we kill the disadvantages of the ego, we kill the advantages. We must be careful with the thinking of the new age, the half-life that defies nature and sells ideas that are great on paper but cannot be lived.

Fools rush to enter where angels (ego) fear to tread. So to move forward we must always deal with ego, fear and doubt. How?

First of all, understand that the ego works only in two dimensions: fear of the future and guilt of the past.

All fear of the future stems from all guilt of the past. If we feel that we have hurt ourselves or others in the past, we will fear hurting ourselves and hurting others in the future. Therefore, past guilt creates future doubts.

If you have doubts in the future and cannot make a decision, always know that the source of the doubt comes from a defiance of the laws of nature in our stories of the past.

Second, change past stories so that they remove the debilitating power of guilt and the consequent doubts it creates.

In the universal laws of nature (the laws that govern the universe and every cell in your body) there can be no pleasure without pain, benefit without inconvenience, pain without help. So the ego, which is based on the denial of universal laws, builds half stories that gratify the emotions, are interesting to share with friends, and great for advice, but they are lies.

Can you hurt someone or yourself in the past without helping someone or helping yourself in the past? If your answer is yes, then you must feel guilty and doubt will steal your future. If the answer is no, then you will be able to overcome any guilt you may have and clear the past, and by doing so, you will clear the doubts about the future.

Third and last, love.

Love cannot coexist with doubt. If you allow doubt to be your perpetual companion, it will sabotage everything you do. That is why it is worth clarifying the past before beginning the future. Love, the human state of full participation in activity, cannot exist in a doubtful mind / heart. Let your doubts be clarified.

To clear the doubt, there are only one or two processes that I have experienced that work. The main one belongs to Dr. John Demartini – The Demartini Method … If you would like to know more about this process, I have been helping clients with this for 17 years and can offer this service or contact Dr. Demartini’s website for find a local. certified consultant.

Living a single day without love is the greatest loss … let your doubts be clarified