Every relationship has its ups and downs. It is normal for two people in a relationship to feel closer at some times than at others. So how do you make it seem higher than down? How do you handle a relationship that seems to go south when you want it to go north? These simple tricks can help him fall in love with you and become even more committed.
Pamper yourself
It’s easy to get sucked into pleasing others and to get carried away. To help him fall in love with you again, you need to feel important enough to be treated well and loved. Take some time for “you” and have a day off, pamper yourself with a nice walk, facial, manicure or pedicure or both, haircut or a new hairstyle. Stand tall and exude that “look at me” self-confidence. You will be surprised how he will suddenly look at you when you stand up straight and have this new attitude.
No major changes are necessary to convey this confidence. A new outfit, a new shade of lipstick, teeth whitening, a new hair clip – all can improve your morale and lift your spirits.
love yourself
Accept and love yourself as you are. If you can’t love yourself, how can you expect someone else to love you? Look in the mirror and find something good that you like about yourself. It can be your hair, your nose, your eyes, find that one thing and focus on it. We all have flaws and if we focus on the positive, those flaws seemingly disappear. Furthermore, defects are always more noticeable to us than to anyone else. Focus on the positive and let him see you shine.
If you’ve gotten carried away, ditch the scruffy stuff and go back to basics. A touch of makeup, a new shirt, style your hair. It’s the little things that make a big difference.
The happier you are, the more people will want to be with you. Don’t air your “dirty clothes”, don’t complain, and don’t reveal too much of your body. He will respect you for it.
Do you remember when you fell in love? Do you remember that feeling of well-being you had? Take a walk down memory lane, smile and feel good about yourself and your relationship. You’ll be up and running in no time and he’ll notice you seem happier. He may even ask you why, that’s when you take the time to share with him that you were only thinking about the day you met or the date you received your first kiss. Guide him through his memory and let him remember for himself. He loved you then and will love you now and the memories are sure to ignite some fire in his eyes.
It doesn’t take a miracle for him to fall in love with you again. Chances are, just a few small changes will do and will remind him of what he loved about you in the first place.
