The 3C Process is the secret that makes The Secret work. The 3C simply stands for CHOOSE, CLAIM and CONNECT. By understanding ‘The 3C Process’, you will understand how creation actually works in our three dimensional world, you will understand what goes on in the background, the workings of the secret in the universe. How do you and the universe come together to make this happen?

Let’s see the first phase, that is, CHOOSE. CHOOSE simply means the “WHAT”. It simply refers to what you really want: what do you really want?

The problem is not getting what we want; the problem is deciding what we want. Most of us don’t know what we want. Most of us have no idea what we want!

You have to be absolutely sure, absolutely clear. If you were to tell someone what you want in one sentence, they should understand it without asking you for clarification. If someone asked you for clarification; that means your description of what you want isn’t clear. If it is not clear, then it is not communicated to the person. If it’s not clear, it’s exactly the same way in your mind.

If you are not clear in your mind what it is you want, then when the message is sent to the universe, the universe cannot understand, the universe cannot understand what it is you want. The universe cannot understand exactly what it is you are asking. If it’s not clear enough, not enough detail, then it’s vague. When it’s lazy, there are too many options for what you want.

Think of the universe as a mega store and this mega store has one big place where you have all the products, anything you want exists in this warehouse. Let’s say all you want is a pair of shoes and you fill out an order form and submit it to the megastore.

When you filled out the order form, check the options. Men’s/women’s shoes, please show us the size, lacing type you want, etc. The more details you can mark when you fill out the order form, the easier it will be for the receiving merchant to find and ship what you want. The warehouse clerk can go to the exact place where the shoes are stored, pick them up, and ship them to you.

If he were to check everything except male or female, he doesn’t know if he wants male or female shoes.

If you had to mark everything correctly except the size, and he has 21 different sizes, he couldn’t give you shoes in the correct size.

If you had to mark everything correctly except the color, and he has 17 colors, which color do you want?

If he were to mark all of this correctly, but forgot to write down his address, he wouldn’t know where to send the shoes.

Let’s say you mark everything correctly including your address, but you forgot to say when you want them delivered, now he doesn’t know when you want them delivered. You may want them delivered on your birthday, but you didn’t say when. So you get them at the wrong time.

Maybe you marked everything correctly, even your address is correct, even the date is correct. But he didn’t pay the postage, he still won’t receive them.

So there is a legal process here. The more clarity you can give this grocer, the more likely it is that he can give you exactly what you want because whatever you want, he has it in his store. Anything and everything you can dream of, he has in store for him. But you have to ask the right thing.

So here, in the first C, most people fail because they don’t know how to ask, they don’t know what to ask. They ask for the wrong thing.