Well, today I would like to focus your attention on three popular sexual positions and, in particular, the advantages and disadvantages of each one. We’ll be looking at the missionary position, the “standing man-woman-lying down” position, and the cowgirl position (“woman on top”).
1/ MISSIONARY CHARGE
This is the traditional position for sex where, as I’m sure you know, the man lies on top of a woman face down for intercourse.
Advantage –
This is the easiest sexual position to get into, requires little energy to get started, and is great for sudden, spontaneous, unplanned sex. Usually it is easy for the man to roll over on top of the woman and her genitals are facing each other. This position lends itself to great intimacy because the two lovers can hold each other and look into each other’s eyes (if they are about the same height). Intercourse feels very exciting for the man, and the woman gets some significant prodding and a “full body” experience. It is usually quite quiet and can be done secretly if there is a danger of it being discovered by other people in the house.
Cons-
This position has a reputation for being the “boring married type of sex” as it tends to lend itself to passionless “quickies” and can be repeated every time a couple has sex. It is often used to avoid being discovered by curious children and other people who may interrupt the session. High levels of stimulation often cause the man to ejaculate rapidly in less than 2-3 minutes, creating a bad habit for his body and a boring experience for the woman, whose body has only just begun to respond to sex before it begins. everything ends. It is a challenge for a man to create an orgasm for his woman unless he spends a LOT of time in foreplay and even then, prolonging the time of intercourse is quite difficult.
2/ Man standing, woman lying down
This is the position where the woman lies with her hips in line with the edge of the bed, while the man stands on the edge of the bed to have sex.
Advantage –
The main advantage of this position from the man’s point of view is the fact that it drastically prolongs the amount of time he can have sexual intercourse with the woman; anything up to 10-20 minutes or more can be accomplished. Having sex standing up makes it much harder for his body to be stimulated to orgasm, so he has to push longer to achieve it. He is also able to see a woman’s body much better and he can use her hands to touch her breasts and upper body, allowing the woman to receive stimulation in two different ways at the same time. The woman usually keeps her legs wide open by placing her hands behind her knees. She can also see her penis slide in and out of her, which turns him on a lot. She can also thrust much deeper, so that she can reach the woman’s A-spot, which can give her “cervical” orgasms.
Cons-
Having sex comfortably while standing requires that the bed be at the same height as the man’s hips. Usually it is not, it is lower. This means that the man has to bend his knees to be able to have sexual intercourse with the woman. This is tiring on the man’s legs because he has to push for a long time, plus there is the problem of bent knees, which means his legs are not flush with the edge of the bed. This can be resolved by pulling the woman’s hips off the bed so that her lower back is at the edge of the bed, but this requires the woman to reposition her legs by folding them against her chest to counteract the center of gravity, so that your whole body doesn’t slide off the bed, in which case, you’ll end up sitting on the floor with your legs spread. Folding her legs against her chest means that the man can no longer access her breasts and upper body, so the stimulation pathway is closed. Inexperienced women may not realize that they need to keep their legs spread with their hands behind their knees and therefore will dangle their legs off the edge of the bed past the man’s body, which can be uncomfortable . There is a greater risk of injuring the vaginal tissues of the woman due to strong thrusts, since the man can go deeper.
3/ Cowgirl position
This is the position in which the woman climbs on top of a prone man and straddles his hips to have sex.
Advantage –
This position is a winner in many ways: it feels amazing for the woman and is extremely exciting for the man. The main benefit is for the woman: she can control everything that happens and do exactly what she needs to achieve an orgasm without relying on the expertise and experience of the man. She can do exactly what makes HER feel good whether or not he knows how to do it. She can go deep or shallow, fast or slow, in and out, up and down, she can rock back and forth, grind her pelvis against her pubic bone to stimulate the clitoris, lean back, lean forward, lean to the left and right, sit facing each other. man, do reverse cowgirl, sit to the left of her body, sit to the right, go round and round like she’s sitting in a swivel chair and all sorts of things. For the man, he gets to see his woman having the time of her life doing whatever she wants to get as much pleasure as he can from her body, which is a great turn-on for him and he secretly gives his woman a total pleasure. Mind blowing timing is what every man wants, and this is the lazy way to achieve it without having to learn any “skills”. However, he will learn that he will, as watching her is very educational and he will find out exactly what turns her on without having to “try everything and watch her closely to see what happens” which is the usual method of approach for us guys. She can teach her man a lot in a short time and he can remember it all for the next time she’s in control. In the meantime, he can sit back and enjoy the ride as much as she does because her penis is getting a lot of stimulation. He can also use her hands to stimulate her breasts and upper body, run her fingers through her hair, tilt her head back, and many other things. Plus, there’s the dominance reversal: putting the woman in control of sex is liberating for her and tremendously exciting for him as he discovers just how wild her woman really is.
Cons-
This position is HIGH ENERGY for both partners. That could also be an advantage, but for the woman, her legs have to be really strong to cope with all the up and down movement, which has to go on more or less non-stop for at least 20 minutes to achieve an orgasm. . It’s an important cardiovascular exercise and a feat of physical endurance. There will be sweat and slippery bodies and a lot of heavy breathing and noise. It’s quite stimulating for the man and there’s a risk of premature ejaculation, which ends quite quickly before he’s had a chance to learn anything or see things really heat up, although women naturally tend to grind more than slide up and down, which can delay your orgasm quite nicely. Your penis needs to be HARD for this – you need a strong boner and it needs to last a long time. There is also a risk of damaging the penis if the girl is very strong by dropping the entire weight of the upper body on top of it and does not touch the vagina (ouch!). In this case, there may be a flexion of the penis, which it’s quite a serious injury (often requiring hospitalization!) Also, getting the penis into the vagina at first can be a little difficult, since the man’s penis points up and is flat against his body, so that he either has to move his penis to a 90 degree position to her body (the usual way) or else she has to lean forward enough for him to take it inside her. There is also a risk that other people around you will detect the noise, so choose a quiet time for this, when there are not many people around!
These are the advantages and disadvantages of these three sexual positions. If you are considering to spice up your sex life with some new positions, I hope this information helps you choose the one you want, so that both of you can have an exciting and amazing sex life together!
